I can understand how you would think that you’re not enough if a man lusts for or pays attention to other women! I’ve felt that in my past. And I’ve felt jealous and angry.

Men are drawn to women. We are beautiful, radiant and amazing!

It’s one thing for a man to notice women and another thing for his attention to constantly be drawn from you toward other women. The more I have accepted that my man will be attracted to other women, and this doesn’t mean he doesnt’ want me, the more he feels like he can be himself. And the more drawn to me he is.

When I do feel hurt or want his attention only on me, I ask him!

Now, if you notice it’s a constant habit, it’s time to have a conversation. You might try asking him what has him do that. It could be a sign that he is alive and awake. And then you get to share how you feel when it happens and make requests about how he is when he’s with you. (And making requests is different than making demands.)

It could be a sign that he is not as interested in you, but in itself it usually isn’t. Though by asking him what has his attention drawn to other women you’ll get to know what is really going on. If it is that he isn’t that into you, better to know than to go about trying to make that relationship work.

Make sense?

Thanks for asking!
Shana

You mentioned in the article how men loves variety. How men cannot help themselves but to look at other women and how it does not mean they do not want to be with us. Can you please explain a little bit more? I am a little bit confused and feel a bit no matter how good you are, it seems you are never enoughif a man still lust for other women. Or is it just the insecurity talking?