Alexis & I often talk about the benefits of spending time with women – which is one of the most important parts of creating a life in which you feel supported, understood, nourished and bright. It is also one of the key foundations to having a su
Spending time with women can also make meeting a great man easier and more fun.
But our girlfriends aren’t always around on lunch breaks, during morning commutes, or running to the grocery store. And you never know where the right man for you will show up.
The key to having the man you want notice you, and feel like he can’t stop himself from approaching you, is to be available for connection in any moment (no matter what mood you’re in).
If you’re feeling sad about not being in a relationship, you can either get hard (which pushes men away) or you can be vulnerable and inviting.
Here’s something to try: Practice having your attention on your longing, your desire for love, rather than your resignation or fear about not having it.
I met my husband while I was sitting alone at a cafe, reading a book!
Let us know how it goes. Leave us a comment as you try this out.
With love & pleasure,