You’re About to Become the Radiant,
Confident Woman Men Find Irresistible!
Without Games, Rules or Being Someone You’re Not…
From: Alexis Shepperd, PhD and Shana James, M.A.
Dear Amazing Woman,
If any of this is true for you, then you are SO in the right place!
- You’re frustrated with the “dating game” and just want a relationship already!
- Every man you meet seems “commitment-phobic”
- You feel fabulous and fun… until you’re around a man you’re really attracted to (and then you become a nervous wreck or boring!)
- You’ve settled for a relationship that didn’t make you happy because it’s better than being alone
- You’ve held back your emotions, fears, and desires so men won’t think you’re needy, desperate, or high-maintenance
- You have a secret fear that it’s never going to happen for you and you’re going to turn into the crazy cat-lady
- You long to be swept off your feet by a man who loves, respects & adores you.
We coach women like you everyday – women who are smart, fun and sexy, but haven’t found the amazing relationship they long for – and we give them the keys to go from misery and frustration to having exactly what they want with men.
It’s actually simple, and once you get the hang of it, it becomes easy to attract quality men and have all the love and intimacy you want!
Imagine knowing, at your deepest core, that you could effortlessly attract great men anytime, anywhere
…And that when you walk into a room (any room!), before you say a word, great men would feel instantly attracted to you AND want to get to know you
…And that the entire process of attraction, dating, and falling in love could be romantic, fun and fulfilling
… And knowing that you are such a fabulous, desirable, amazing woman that nothing could shake your confidence and radiance – even the occasional “no thanks” or bad hair day.
Sound too good to be true?
Well, it isn’t!
This is how life is for the women we coach… and also how it is for us!
But it hasn’t always been this way.
We know exactly how frustrating love and
relationships can be….
For MANY years, we each longed for a passionate, fulfilling relationship with a great man, but it just wasn’t happening!
We read everything we could get our hands on to try to figure out why we weren’t happy and why we didn’t have the relationships we wanted – I even got a PhD in psychology (~Alexis). And I got a Masters in Psychology (~Shana). But nothing really changed.
Walking into a party or a bar, we would both find ourselves hoping to meet a man and fall in love… while at the same time feeling overwhelmed with self-doubt, self-consciousness and nervousness. So many thoughts would buzz through our heads…
“Do I look alright? Does this outfit make me look fat?”
“I wish that guy would talk with me! Should I approach him?”
“I hope men don’t think I’m too (serious, awkward, successful, boring, old, young, fat, etc.) to be “relationship material.”
“Wow, that woman over there is so pretty & confident! How can I compete with her?”
“Why am I even here? All the good men are taken anyway.”
“Oh God, if he knew what was really going on with me, he’d probably run!”
Whew! It was so exhausting! And there were many times we were afraid it would never change.
Whether we were single, dating or in a relationship, we spent a lot of time obsessing about our bodies, comparing ourselves with other women or wishing we were thinner, sexier and more desirable.
During these frustrating years, we dated some really “interesting” men who were not emotionally available, who didn’t call when they said they would, and didn’t really meet us.
But we also met some pretty great men during these years… who didn’t choose us. Ouch!
The thing is, we both knew we were pretty great women (underneath it all). It just didn’t make sense why things were so hard and men weren’t pursuing us in the way we wanted!
What we didn’t know then–that we know now–is that… Men are always simply responding to us… to our Communication!
So, the question becomes…
What are you communicating?
Let’s face it, men aren’t jerks (not most of them, anyway!). And of course they have they’re own stuff going on. But they are always responding to the subtle signals you’re sending, moment to moment.
Because whether you like it or not, you are always communicating. You walk around in the world – and in every moment you communicate to those around you what you like, what you don’t like, how you feel about yourself, how you want to be treated, and what you think you deserve in love and relationship.
And in response to your communications, you get back what you put out. Without exception. How you communicate will either help you magnetize good men to you in droves – or will send them running the other way!
Unless you learn how to communicate in a
way that makes you IRRESISTIBLE to men,
you won’t be able to attract the man you
really want.
So let’s talk about communication…
One thing you HAVE to know is that communication has two parts: Content and Connection.
The content of your communication is what you actually say or do. Many women spend A LOT of time trying to figure out the right thing to say or do, as if there were a set of RULES they could follow that would make relationships work.
They waste a HUGE amount of time, energy, and stress wondering things like:
“Maybe I shouldn’t have called him first!”
“Should I have said that?”
“Did he leave because I waited too long to have sex? Or because we had sex too soon?”
“I should be happier when I meet men… men want happy women (not emotional ones!)”
“Maybe if I was taller, shorter, thinner, more curvy (etc.)… he’d have stayed around.”
However, worrying like this doesn’t help, because even if you could figure out the right thing to do, only about 7% of what you communicate is determined by saying and doing the “right” thing (i.e. the content).
The other 93% of what you communicate comes out in your body language, tone, emotions, and the subtle signals that you just can’t fake.
This is what either creates a feeling of CONNECTION – or Doesn’t! So if all you are focusing on is trying to do or say the right thing – you miss out on almost ALL of what’s really going on.
That’s why its important to learn how to “unkink” your communication… from the inside out. Because once you make a few key shifts on the inside, the signals you give off are totally irresistible!
Strong, attractive, compassionate, successful, loyal, loving men ARE out there. We saw them COME OUT OF THE WOODWORK as soon as we made some changes inside ourselves. And we don’t mean new clothes or makeup or flirting tactics…
We discovered the keys to feeling confident,
desirable, and happy from the inside.
And men responded!
When we figured out these subtle shifts, our relationships with men completely changed. Since then, in our relationships with men, we have been able to share anything, even sadness, anger and fear. And men have loved and cherished us even more. We’ve had the kind of relationships we had only dreamed were possible!
Everywhere we go, we feel respected and adored. Men want to spend time with us, flirt with us, and take care of us. Some men have even told me (Alexis) they want to be a better man when they’re around me! The first time a man said that to me, my heart melted. What an honor!
And we almost NEVER have those old feelings of self-consciousness or self-doubt. We feel totally free to be ourselves – however we’re feeling – even with men we’re really attracted to!
This is exactly the opposite of how it used to be. So believe us, if we can have all this, you can too!
That’s why we distilled all the shifts we made into a real, down-to-earth training that will change your communication with men from the ground-up.
REVEALED: A Simple, Fun Way to Become
Irresistible to the Right Man…
and Attract the Love of Your Life!
We are proud and excited to offer you our amazing program – The Irresistible Woman – that is GUARANTEED to help you have the healthy and satisfying relationship you deserve.
Instead of continuing to go to bed alone… and wake up alone… without that special someone to celebrate with… or lean on when times are tough…
Discover the 7 Sexy Essentials
That Make You Irresistible to Men
These 7 Sexy Essentials are the key to feeling more relaxed, free to be yourself, confident, powerful, radiant and even turned-on. And you effortlessly become irresistible to men!
With these Essentials you’ll discover how to
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By the end of this program you will have the secrets about relationship you’ve always wanted to know – and you’ll know exactly what to do with them so you can…easily attract your man, anytime, anywhere!
But ultimately, it is really about being able
to attract someone who will be by your side
to share it all!
Here’s What Women Are Saying About Irresistible Woman:
| “After I started working with Shana and Alexis, my eyes opened to an entirely different way of being ATTRACTIVE.” After I started working with Shana and Alexis, my eyes opened to an entirely different way of being ATTRACTIVE. I saw some major blocks that were keeping me from satisfaction in love. Now I’m experiencing the power of being MAGNETIC to amazing men. And I’m more excited and empowered about my sexiness than ever before!” ~ Vrinda Normand, Marketing and Copywriting Coach Santa Cruz, Califormia |
“I met a wonderful man…we’re having a fabulous time!” “After many years of being single, I got involved with AWE and had a powerful, intense, deep and FUN experience. The tools I learned helped me begin to open up and become more expressive.
I have since met a wonderful man and we are having a fabulous time! I am convinced it would never have happened had I not participated in AWE. The work has also transformed my other relationships—with friends, family and business colleagues. I am so grateful! ~Angela Palermo, Corporate Real Estate Consultant San Francisco, California |
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“I feel so in love with myself right now!” “My experience with AWE has been amazing. I’ve realized what a profound difference it makes in my life if I make everything **EVERYTHING** I do an act of loving myself. Making my coffee, washing my hair, cleaning my apartment, treating my patients, reading a book, swimming laps, shopping for underwear, enjoying my friends, loving a man — all of it. I feel so in love with myself right now! “Thank you” doesn’t seem meaningful enough a phrase for what you’ve given me. I think “bless you” is more in line with what you deserve.” ~ Leigh, Physical Therapist San Francisco, California |
The Right Man For You May Walk By At Any
Moment! Will He Stop In His Tracks… Or
Pass You By?
Rather than waiting and hoping next time will be different, we want you to be ready. And that’s where the Irresistible Woman comes in.
Here’s What You’ll Get:
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Learn the 7 Sexy Essentials that make you Irresistible |
Learn the 7 most powerful keys to creating attraction and deep, lasting connection with men. You will discover what has men go out of their way to approach you – without even saying a word.
When you learn the 7 Sexy Essentials you’ll know how to communicate in any moment, with anyone, in a way that makes you totally irresistible, while still being yourself!
Once you know these keys, you can literally say or do ANYTHING – break all the dating and relationship rules – and still have men feel drawn to you, inspired by you and wanting more of you.
Then you can relax into the magic of finding a man who is an incredible match for you as you
feel more relaxed, free to be yourself, confident, powerful, radiant and even turned-on.
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Join us for 7 powerful seminars… from the comfort of
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Join us live on the phone as we share our best information and guidance that you can use right away – juicy topics such as how to:
- Find great men and instantly capture their attention
- Turn your downward spiral of doubt and self-judgment into an upward spiral or self-love and irresistibility
- Share everything from fears to fantasies with a man, without scaring him away, even on a first date
- Magnify your radiance & sexiness in a way that’s authentic for you: any time, anywhere, with anyone
- Use your feminine, rather than masculine power, so you can you can go from feeling exhausted & burned out to juicy & fulfilled
- Know what makes a man choose you and keep coming back (and what doesn’t)
- Ask for (and get) what you want…with men and in all areas of your life
You’ll connect with other women around the world. The amazing technology we have allows you to be in partnered exercises so you can really get close to women, as though you were in the same room.
And you don’t have to worry if you miss a call because you’ll get access to all the recordings and can email us your questions!
Tele-seminar dates: July 20, 27, August 3, 10, 17, 24, 31
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LIVE coaching from Shana & Alexis |
As you learn these Essentials and begin to apply what you learn you’ll have questions about your own life situations. The benefit of being live on the calls is that you’ll:
- Get individualized coaching and answers to your most important questions
- Have amazing breakthroughs that will change your life for the better – FASTER than you thought possible
- Save yourself time, energy and effort by learning about love and relationships through other women’s challenges & questions. This can honestly put you years ahead in your growth!
- Practices to start making the most of every day so you can find the love of your life faster and with more fun!
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BONUS: Attend the Irresistible Woman 2-Day Event in
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If you’re one of the first 30 women to sign up for the Irresistible Woman telseminar series, not only do you get all this hot info. and practices, but you also get to attend the Irresistible Woman 2-Day workshop, LIVE in San Francisco!
In this powerful live workshop, you will receive:
- Your “Irresistibility Blueprint” - Assessing exactly where you are on the continuum of each of the 7 Sexy Essentials is necessary to step into being the unique and naturally radiant woman you are. Any part of you that isn’t free to be expressed will push love away. The Blueprint is your personal guide to stepping into your fabulousness!
- Live Q & A panel with men – Instead of wasting time with girlfriends, guessing why men do what they do (which actually creates more pain and suffering for us), take this priceless opportunity to ask questions right to the source. These men, our AWE coaches, have worked with thousands of women and men. They will tell you the truth, the risk is minimal and you don’t have to worry about scaring off the man you’re dating.
- Exercises to transform your blocks to love & intimacy – For each of the 7 Essentials you will experience an exercise to help you move from the low to the high end of the Irresistibility Continuum. By the time you walk out the door on Sunday night you’ll be magnetizing men!
- On-the-spot coaching around your toughest challenges – Alexis and I will be right there with you to support you if you get stuck, to help you embody your irresistibility.
- Unique opportunities to create friendships with other amazing, authentic women – Not all women friendships support you having the relationship you really want. Having authentic women in your life is one of the secret keys to attracting your man.
By the end of the weekend you’ll also:
- Learn how to magnify your radiance & sexiness in a way that’s authentic for you…
- Know what to do when fear and insecurity show up so you can still be yourself with men…
- And learn how to deal with unwanted attention from men in a way that makes you feel safe and comfortable
Frequently Asked Questions |
Q: I’m afraid all the great men are taken. Am I just wasting my time?
A: That’s what we thought too! But once we started to shift our feelings, beliefs, and actions, all of these fantastic men started appearing, as if by magic!
Q: I have too much on my plate already. How can I fit in one more thing?
A: First of all…how important is this to you? How badly do you really want it? Often we hear women make excuses but it’s really a cover-up. Trust us, when you want something badly enough, you make the time. Haven’t you found that to be true in your life? That said, everything is recorded so it is on your time schedule.
Q: Being on the phone seems like it’s not intimate. How can you get great results if not in person?
A: We do phone coaching and routinely help people have powerful breakthroughs – even over the phone! In fact, being on the phone may have you let go of some of your self-consciousness.
 “Yes, Alexis and Shana, I Am Ready to become Irresistible now… I Can Attract & Create a Phenomenal Relationship!”
Important Dates:Irresistible Woman Teleseminar SeriesEvery Tuesday Evening: July 20th through Aug 31st, 2010
Irresistible Woman 2-Day Live WorkshopSeptember 11th and 12th, 2010
***I understand that I’m investing in the Irresistible Woman Program at NO RISK whatsoever.*** We’re so confident this program will make a difference in your life that if you attend the program & apply these practices in your life, and don’t see results, come back to us within a year and we’ll give you your money back.  Register via our secure shopping cart and we’ll be waiting on the next page to welcome you! This online transaction is 100% secure and you will get an electronic receipt within a few minutes. |
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“I saw huge changes in me and all the other women. I felt stronger and freer, trusting and valuing myself…” “Alexis and Shana are doing PHENOMENAL work. As an experienced psychotherapist, I am astounded by how quickly and effectively they help participants break through blocks and change old patterns. I really appreciate the balance of wisdom, intelligence, and emotional sensitivity they bring. I felt deeply seen and appreciated, at the same time as they called me out on ways I was unconsciously selling myself short. I saw huge changes in me and all the other women. I left feeling stronger and freer, trusting and valuing myself and others more; the impact on my relationships has been profound. ~Laura W, Psychotherapist San Francisco, California |
To living your life authentically & in love, 
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P.S. You can continue to do the same thing and expect different results (that’s Einstein’s definition of insanity). You could also do the trial and error method that is extremely painful and time-consuming.
OR you can listen to your intuition and take a small leap of faith by signing up today. No matter what you decide, we love you and wish you the best!
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